Consultations

Online and in-person consultations

Confidential sexology consultations for individuals and couples, by secure video or face to face in Oslo, in English, French and Norwegian.

Sexology services

Who I work with

Individual consultations

A private space to explore desire, intimacy, confidence and sexual wellbeing, at your own pace.

Couples support

Help for partners to talk openly, understand each other and find their way back to closeness.

LGBTQIA+ affirmative

All orientations, identities and relationship forms are welcome. You never have to explain or defend who you are.

Online consultations

Talk from anywhere in the world over a secure video call. Many people find it easier to open up from the comfort of home.

  • Flexible times across time zones
  • Individuals and couples
  • Only a quiet room and a stable connection needed

In-person consultations

Meet in a calm, private setting in Oslo. You receive the address and practical details when your time is confirmed.

  • A private, relaxed setting
  • Individuals and couples
  • Time to talk without rush
  • English
  • Français
  • Norsk
Topics

What we can talk about

  • Low, high or mismatched desire
  • Intimacy and closeness in a relationship
  • Communication about needs and boundaries
  • Performance worries and sexual confidence
  • Pain, arousal or orgasm concerns
  • Body image and self-esteem
  • Sexual orientation and identity
  • Sexuality, culture and faith
  • Intimacy after life changes
  • Trust after infidelity

Consultations are a conversation-based service and do not replace medical care. If something may have a physical cause, I will encourage you to also see a doctor.

The process

How it works

  1. Send a messageUse the booking form or email post@gilbertsoba.com and say whether you prefer online or in person.
  2. Agree on a timeI reply personally, answer your questions and confirm a time that suits you.
  3. MeetWe talk in confidence about what matters to you, and agree on what happens next.